“In their old age they will continue to prosper” (Ps. 92:14).
1, 2. How does Jehovah view faithful brothers who are growing old? (Psalm 92:12-14; see also the picture.)
Jehovah views faithful brothers who are growing old as thriving, mature trees, which remain beautiful and valuable as time goes by. To him, they are no less important because of gray hair or age; on the contrary, he focuses on their outstanding spiritual qualities and their faithful service over many years, in both good times and bad.
ADDITIONAL COMMENTS
Jehovah views them as thriving trees. The paragraph gives the example of the Japanese cherry tree, which is said to live for over a thousand years and is full of beautiful, fragrant blossoms and lovely leaves. In the same way, Jehovah views them: beautiful and valuable, just as the illustration shows.
Proverbs 16:31 compares gray hair to a crown, that is, to the experience and wisdom of older people, like a crown that inspires respect and honor. However, the text adds that this is true only when one has lived a life of righteousness. In other words, old age is not automatically honorable simply by virtue of being elderly, but it becomes valuable and beautiful in Jehovah's eyes when it has been lived with justice and faithfulness.
As noted at Psalm 92:13, the elderly remind us of trees that blossom year after year, bringing joy and shade. Jehovah views them as a source of encouragement and wisdom to others, for they are firmly planted in his house and thrive in his courtyards.
Another beautiful detail is that Jehovah compares them to palm trees. In particular, the date palm is one of the few living things that becomes more beautiful as it ages. In the same way, Jehovah sees our older brothers and sisters: the more years and gray hair they have, the more beautiful they are to him and the more he values them.
The image shows us that throughout their lives, these older siblings have been able to develop such beautiful qualities, going through different circumstances that, in the end, make them look like beautiful, blossoming trees.
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An elderly couple is sitting on an outdoor bench surrounded by cherry blossom trees.
Like flourishing, mature trees, the older siblings are very beautiful and continue to thrive. (See paragraph 2).
3. Mention how Jehovah used one of his elderly servants to accomplish his will.
Jehovah used several of his servants in their old age to accomplish his will. For example, he used Sarah to give birth to a son from whom a powerful nation would arise and from whom the Messiah would come. He also used Moses, who was already elderly, to deliver the Israelites from Egypt. Furthermore, in his old age, Jehovah inspired the apostle John to write five Bible books.
ADDITIONAL COMMENTS
For example, when Sarah was quite old, it was announced to her that she would have a son, from whom a powerful nation would descend and who would be an ancestor of the Messiah. Similarly, Moses was very old when he was tasked with leading the Israelites out of Egypt. Furthermore, it was in his old age that the apostle John wrote, under inspiration, five books of the Bible.
In Sarah's case, she was 90 years old; Moses, 80; and the apostle John could have been almost 100. Therefore, when we think of older people who at that age say they no longer have much value, these examples are very encouraging.
About the video: It is beautiful to see the lessons we can learn from how this sister approaches her situation. She undoubtedly misses all the things she can no longer do, especially when she sees young people around her full of energy and, as she herself says, thinks about all the privileges they still have ahead of them in serving Jehovah. However, she has refocused her perspective and says: “I know I can do a lot to encourage and support these young people.” Therefore, she decides to reach out to them and share her experience to support and encourage them in reaching those goals. She concludes by saying: “Jehovah, thank you for giving me this opportunity.”
4. According to Proverbs 15:15, what quality helps older brothers to face difficulties? (See also the picture.)
According to Proverbs 15:15, the quality that helps older brothers face difficulties is joy, since a joyful heart allows them to face the challenges of age with a positive attitude.
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As the article says, a cheerful and positive attitude helps older siblings cope with the difficulties that come with age.
The idea mentioned in the note is very beautiful, because it points out that joy is closely related to happiness, and we know that happiness is part of the fruitage of the spirit mentioned in Galatians 5:22. So the key to having this happiness is to maintain a close friendship with Jehovah.
The image shows an elderly couple whose faces reflect a cheerful and positive attitude, as we've mentioned. Although they may be facing certain age-related challenges, they maintain this positive outlook every day.
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The couple in the previous image, embracing and smiling under the branches of a cherry blossom tree.
A cheerful and positive attitude helps older siblings cope with the difficulties that come with age. (See paragraph 4.)
THE CHALLENGE OF MAINTAINING JOY
5. What things might discourage us as we get older?
As we get older, we may feel discouraged because we are no longer able to do the same things we once did, because we miss the youth and good health of our younger days, and because of the physical limitations and pain that accompany old age. These difficulties can generate frustration, sadness, and even anger as we see our bodies and abilities change.
ADDITIONAL COMMENTS
Perhaps we are saddened that we are not able to do the same things as before, and we think about what we read in Ecclesiastes 7:10: that the old days were much better than the present, perhaps because, due to age or some illness, we can no longer do as much as before.
Through our study of The Watchtower, we see that old age is not a disease, but something that comes with age. However, our minds can remain alert, and our desire to do Jehovah's will remains.
Having certain difficulties doesn't mean we can no longer do the things we used to do. Perhaps now we do them with more difficulty or discomfort, but we persevere and accomplish them, because this testifies that we are Christians and true Witnesses of Jehovah.
Brother Harold says that activities that used to be very easy for him, when he was very athletic, are now difficult and he might not be able to do them anymore. This makes it a challenge for the older brothers to maintain a positive attitude.
6. a) What other things might discourage us?
Other things that might discourage us include the loss of independence, such as having to depend on a caregiver, moving in with a relative, or no longer being able to drive due to poor health or vision loss. These situations can be very difficult emotionally.
To avoid becoming discouraged, we must remember that we are still very precious to Jehovah and that he understands our feelings. He takes into account our inner selves and the great love and appreciation we have for him and for our brothers and sisters.
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Above all, not being able to do things independently. However, we must keep in mind that this is something that will eventually happen to all of us; even young people, if the new system is still delayed, will experience it too. Knowing that Jehovah still values us gives us hope and joy.
As we get older, we can become very frustrated when we realize we can no longer do basic things we used to do and that we now depend on others. We might need someone to care for us almost all day, or we might have to move in with a relative or a child, which means leaving behind our home or our familiar surroundings, where we may not feel entirely comfortable, even if we are treated well.
It mentions not being able to go to certain places alone because their eyesight is failing, or having to stop driving. Someone who has driven all their life may suddenly feel incomplete, as if something is missing, since driving represented their ease of movement.
6. b) What should older siblings consider when deciding whether they should stop driving? (See the article “Should I Stop Driving?” in this magazine.)
To determine whether they should stop driving, older siblings should honestly consider their health, eyesight, and ability to travel safely. In doing so, it is important to think about both their own safety and the safety of others, remembering that their worth depends not on their independence, but on the love and loyalty Jehovah sees in their hearts.
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This article cites nine points that we must analyze, and if we are failing in any of them, we need to consider whether we should continue driving or not.
First, avoid the guilt of bloodshed, that is, avoid being involved in an accident due to our limitations. Second, humbly acknowledge the limitations that come with age.
Proverbs 11:2 says, in its final part, that wisdom is with the humble. Therefore, the older brother or sister who is beginning to recognize their limitations may try, at first, to gradually reduce their driving time or distances. However, the time will probably come when they have to stop driving altogether, and that will be a clear sign of humility.
7. What will help us if we are saddened by the possibility of not seeing the end of this system?
If we are saddened by the prospect of not seeing the end of this system, it will help us to remember Jehovah’s patience. He is giving time for more people to come to know him and serve him, and thinking about the benefits that others—even our own family members—will receive because of that patience can change our perspective and encourage us to continue serving Jehovah joyfully.
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To have the same viewpoint as Jehovah, who is patiently waiting for as many people as possible to be saved.
The text of Isaiah 30:18, in its final part, speaks of the result of having this positive approach. It says: “Blessed are all those who eagerly await it.” Thus, if the focus is on the benefits of demonstrating this patience, it will be easier to endure.
Although we may not live to see the end of this system, we might ask ourselves: how many people could benefit from the patience that Jehovah is demonstrating in this system of things?
8. How might age-related problems affect older people?
Pain, fatigue, or illness can affect the emotional state of both young and old, sometimes leading them to say or do things they later regret. Physical discomfort or suffering can cause them to react in unusual ways or speak impulsively, as happened to the faithful Job.
However, the Bible shows that, although these difficulties have an impact, they are not an excuse to mistreat others, and that it is important to acknowledge mistakes and ask for forgiveness when necessary.
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Regardless of age, when any of us has a physical ailment that seems to never end, or goes through long periods of anxiety, insomnia, or distress, our personality can be affected, and we feel like we are not the same.
Old age is a chronic condition: once you reach a certain age, all that remains is to keep getting older and aging. As a result, these limitations and discomforts can influence a person's character.
As the paragraph mentions, Job sometimes said impulsive things, and this can happen to anyone, not just older siblings. At times, we might not be very pleasant or we might become a little demanding. If that happens and we realize it, we simply apologize and move on.
Age doesn't give us license to speak however we want. We must be very careful, because Jesus said in Matthew that if someone has something against us, we should make peace with our brother, since that is the best thing to do. And if we need to apologize, we should apologize as many times as necessary.
Despite all he suffered, Job did not lose his loyalty to Jehovah. Even so, he later had the humility to acknowledge his mistake. Therefore, we should be understanding and patient with this kind of behavior, knowing that Jehovah understands the pain these people are going through.
We can all imagine that having chronic pain can sometimes dampen our spirits, but, as the paragraph says, that's not justified. It's true that we have to find strength, and, as Solomon says in Ecclesiastes 7:9, we may lose control at some point, but ideally, we should regain it quickly.
TIPS FOR MAINTAINING JOY
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A cherry blossom branch. In several circles are pictures of things brothers and sisters do to maintain joy in old age. The images are repeated in paragraphs 9 to 13.
How can we maintain joy despite the challenges of old age? (See paragraphs 9-13).
9. Why is it good to let ourselves be helped? (See also the images).
It is good to allow ourselves to be helped because it demonstrates humility and strengthens Christian love. By accepting help from others, we not only receive support and feel their affection and concern, but we also give them the opportunity to experience the happiness that comes from giving. This benefits everyone and contributes to our joy.
ADDITIONAL COMMENTS
It is good to let ourselves be helped because, although at first it may be difficult for us due to pride or not wanting to be a burden, accepting help teaches us humility and allows us to recognize that we need others.
When we allow ourselves to be helped, we give others the opportunity to experience the joy that comes from giving. At the same time, we feel encouraged and happy to see the love and care they show us.
Because we give others the opportunity to experience the happiness that comes from giving, and we ourselves feel happier when we see how much they love and care for us.
Usually, when you're older, many siblings offer to help: "Can I lend you a hand?" or "Can I help you?" Often, it's not that you don't accept that kind of help; it's usually because you don't want to be a burden.
If you are humble and realize that the people who want to help you also need to feel useful, always rejecting help prevents them from experiencing the joy of giving, as the Bible says: “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” When they feel fulfilled by helping you, and you are humble and recognize that they do it with good intentions, the best thing to do is accept it and be grateful, even if you don't want to be a burden.
The feeling you get when you help someone in need, whether it's an elderly person or someone with difficulties, is wonderful. Something as simple as helping them carry their things or opening a door for them can bring great satisfaction. This is what the text of Acts 20:35 says: “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” In this way, we do a small favor for those we help, and at the same time, we also increase our own happiness.
In the picture, we see an older sister leaning on a cane for support, while a younger sister helps her with her shopping. A characteristic feature reflected in their faces is joy: the older sister, because she is willing to receive help, and the younger sister, because she is giving it.
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An older sister is holding onto the arm of a younger sister as they go grocery shopping together.
(See paragraph 9).
10. Why shouldn't we forget to show our gratitude? (See also the image).
We shouldn't forget to show our appreciation because expressing gratitude makes others feel valued and appreciated for what they do for us. A simple gesture, like a smile or a "thank you," can greatly encourage them and convey affection.
Furthermore, by showing gratitude we strengthen the bonds of love and make those who help us happy, because they know that their effort is truly recognized.
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When others do things for us, we feel gratitude, even if we sometimes forget to show it. With a smile and a kind gesture, we can make the other person feel that we truly appreciate what they do.
Perhaps with small gestures we can show our gratitude for the help our brothers and sisters give us. For example, the experience of this sister who cared for elderly brothers and sisters at Bethel: they were small notes, but, as she says, they were full of love.
The image shows us that we don't need grand gestures to express our gratitude. A simple note can ensure that this feeling doesn't stay within us, but rather resonates and that joy is shared with others.
The woman in the picture surely has many problems and ailments. Her hands show that she is elderly, but she has paused to reflect on all that is being done for her. Now she is expressing it explicitly, so that her gratitude reaches the person helping her and both can feel happy.
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An older sister writing a thank you card.
(See paragraph 10).
11. In what ways can we help others? (See also the image.)
We can help others by giving our time and energy, sharing our knowledge and experience with them. By taking an interest in younger people, asking them questions, and listening to them attentively, we empower them.
We also help them by explaining why obeying Jehovah is always best and leads to happiness. In this way, we not only comfort and encourage others, but we ourselves find happiness in doing so.
ADDITIONAL COMMENTS
The paragraph compares older people to libraries full of wisdom. Unlike books that sit on shelves and teach nothing, older people can teach us young people when they share their experiences and qualities. In this way, they help us greatly through their example and faithfulness.
As we saw earlier, older people may no longer be able to participate as much in ministry, but they can certainly encourage young people with their life experience. How wonderful it is not to keep knowledge to ourselves, but to share the experiences that have shaped us, so that young people can take them as a great example.
Psalm 71:18 says: “Let me tell the next generation about your power, all those yet to come about your might.” The paragraph explains that older brothers can ask questions and then listen. Thus, an older brother can help a younger one by guiding him with questions to show him how Jehovah can help him in some way.
The picture shows a young man and an older man. The young man is speaking, while the older man, the “library,” is listening. Why? Because he wants to help him and show him why obeying Jehovah is the best thing, and his example will give weight to the words he speaks. In this way, the young man can learn how obeying Jehovah brings true happiness.
We see how there's a benefit for both. The older brother might not feel valued because he believes he can't contribute much physically, but by listening and giving good advice, he's truly a great help. And the younger brother also benefits, because the advice he receives from his older brother will surely be very useful to him.
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An older brother listening to a younger brother who is telling him something.
(See paragraph 11).
12. What does Jehovah promise his elderly servants at Isaiah 46:4? (See also the picture.)
At Isaiah 46:4, Jehovah promises his elderly servants that he will sustain and care for them throughout their lives, even when their physical strength declines. Jehovah always keeps his promises. This promise assures them that they will not be alone and that they can always rely on his help and support.
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Jehovah tells them: “I will be the same.” That is, just as in the past, when they had more energy or easier circumstances, He has cared for and helped them. Jehovah promises that, just as He did then, He will continue to sustain them and help them face the new challenges that may arise with old age.
Isaiah 40:29-31 mentions that Jehovah is the one who fills us with vigor. Even when we are tired—and young people get tired too, not just older people—Jehovah gives us the strength we need to continue serving him in a way that pleases him.
Isaiah 40:28 says that Jehovah neither grows tired nor weary. We may feel physically exhausted, but He uses all His energy to help the elderly, as we have read in the text. This means that, seeing Jehovah support, care for, and help us, we can develop the quality needed in old age: true happiness.
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An older brother saying a prayer.
(See paragraph 12).
13. According to 2 Corinthians 4:16-18, what should we remember? (See also the image.)
According to 2 Corinthians 4:16-18, we must remember that, although our bodies age and we face physical difficulties, the Bible assures us that these are temporary and will cease to exist.
We must also keep our eyes on what is eternal, rather than focusing only on what is temporary, because present difficulties are fleeting and Jehovah promises us that our best days are yet to come.
ADDITIONAL COMMENTS
We must remember that old age is temporary. We shouldn't think like those who have lost hope, believing that only the decline and death await us. We have hope that we can regain strength and even vitality. As Paul says, we must fix our eyes on things unseen or not yet seen, because they belong to the future: the Kingdom of God and the restoration of all things.
This text shows us that age does not affect our relationship with Jehovah or the fulfillment of his promises. We can definitely trust that they will be fulfilled, and thinking about and meditating on them, regardless of our age, can bring us joy and help us overcome any problem.
It also helps us see that our trials are temporary. Right now they may be difficult, but they don't overwhelm us, because we know our best days are yet to come.
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An older sister in a wheelchair is reading the Bible and imagining herself in Paradise as a young woman, getting up from her chair.
(See paragraph 13).
HOW CAN WE HELP THE ELDERLY?
14. Why is it important to call and visit older siblings?
It's important to call and visit older siblings because they often feel lonely. By visiting or calling them, we show them that we care and love them, which brings them joy and comfort.
In addition, planning these visits or calls in advance helps us ensure that we dedicate time to what is truly important, thus strengthening the bonds of love within the congregation.
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Sometimes, due to their circumstances, older people have to spend a lot of time alone and can't participate as much in congregation activities as they'd like. That's why, if we remember them, call them, and check on their well-being, they feel valued and understand that we need them. This is very encouraging for them and for us as well.
This paragraph gives us a very practical idea: setting a reminder or making a specific plan. It's true that we often remember them or think about including them in our prayers, but sometimes, with our busy lives, we don't find the time to call or visit them. That's why making a specific plan is so helpful: knowing how much it means to them and how good it makes them feel, we'll be very happy to have dedicated that time to them.
15. What can young people and the elderly do together?
Young and old can spend time together conversing and sharing experiences, such as telling stories, discussing favorite scriptures, or laughing together. They can also enjoy common activities, such as watching JW Broadcasting® programs, going for walks, eating out, or viewing creation.
In addition, young people can help in practical ways, such as updating electronic devices or downloading study materials. The important thing is to be good friends, support each other, and enjoy each other's company.
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What you can do is talk. Sometimes young people think, “What am I supposed to talk about with an older brother? What do we have in common?” Some suggestions include talking about their favorite Bible verse, how they came to know the truth, what problems they have overcome, or what difficult situations they have had to face.
Communication helps to form a friendship between the young person and the older person, and it is also a source of encouragement for the older person, who can express themselves and share part of their life with another person.
There's no need to overthink things. Sometimes we create obstacles where there aren't any. We think older siblings can't do things that they actually can, like watching movies together. If it's a plan that works perfectly well among younger siblings, why not adapt it for an older sibling?
The important thing is to take the initiative. Being a good friend also means helping in practical ways, even simple ones, like updating their electronic devices or downloading the latest publications for them. They'll really appreciate it.
Sister Carol says that she's "getting on in years and enjoys shopping, eating out, and admiring creation." This shows us that the brothers haven't lost their enthusiasm and find joy in doing these things. Therefore, what we should do is take the initiative and invite them to participate in these activities, and I'm sure that both they and we will thoroughly enjoy the experience.
Another thing we can do with our older brothers and sisters is pray with them. In prayer, they can share their worries and discuss the decisions they need to make. In these prayers, we ask Jehovah for help, because we all have problems, young and old alike.
16. Why might it be advisable to accompany elderly people to the doctor?
Accompanying seniors to the doctor can be beneficial, as it ensures they receive proper care and are treated with respect. Furthermore, taking notes with the doctor and supporting them during the appointment can provide reassurance and peace of mind. This companionship can also encourage doctors to take them more seriously and contribute to a more positive experience.
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Because this way we ensure they are treated well and receive all the attention they need. Furthermore, when they are accompanied, the treatment is usually very different, and they appreciate us making time to be with them.
This is very important, because in the society in which we live, doctors sometimes do not attend to the elderly with all the dedication they need, thinking that, since they are older, the resources or effort are not justified.
It's important that we support them, since older siblings sometimes complain of physical aches and pains, not necessarily psychological illnesses. Supporting them in this way is a very positive way to help them.
17. In what aspects of ministry can we participate with the elderly?
We can engage with the elderly in different facets of ministry, such as inviting them to join us in the cart while we preach, bringing them a chair to sit in, or including them in Bible courses, even allowing them to lead them from their homes.
We can also help by organizing preaching meetings in their homes to make it easier for them to participate. These actions allow us to honor them and mutually benefit from sharing in the work of the ministry.
ADDITIONAL COMMENTS
Sometimes older people no longer have the strength to participate in door-to-door preaching, but there are other ways they can help. For example, we can invite them to come with us to the church cart, even bringing a chair so they can sit down if they get tired. They can also be invited to a Bible study, which can even be held in their own home.
The footnote in Romans 12:10 speaks of taking the lead in showing honor. It's like a friendly competition to be the quickest to show kindness. This is how we want to treat our older brothers and sisters. Instead of feeling intimidated by their years of service, we can take the initiative to support them in whatever aspect of ministry they choose to pursue.
18. What will the next study article be about?
The following study article will discuss how we can maintain joy and spirits when caring for an elderly relative, child, or sick friend, and what can help us not to lose our joy while providing them with support and care.
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It will help us not to lose our joy if we are the ones taking care of an elderly relative, a child or a friend who is sick.
The text of Psalm 37:25 says: “I was young and now I am old, yet I have never seen a righteous person forsaken or his children begging for bread.” In the next article, we will see the blessings that Jehovah bestows on caregivers and on those who care.
WHAT WOULD WE ANSWER?
What things might discourage older siblings?
Older siblings might become discouraged for a number of reasons, such as feeling that they can no longer do the same things as before, missing their youth and good health, or facing difficulties performing simple tasks due to physical ailments, such as mobility problems or arthritis.
They may also be discouraged by losing independence, depending on a caregiver, moving in with a child, or no longer being able to drive or get around on their own. These situations can make them feel frustrated or sad, even though they remain very valuable to Jehovah and others.
ADDITIONAL COMMENTS
Their limitations, such as seeing that poor health prevents them from doing what they once could do on their own, and having to ask for help, can discourage them and even make them feel depressed. What they should not forget is that Jehovah and the brothers value them greatly, and that He looks at what is in their hearts.
What can older people do to maintain joy?
Older adults can maintain their joy in several ways:
Allowing oneself to be helped:Accepting help from others allows them to receive support and, at the same time, give others the opportunity to experience the joy of giving. This also makes them feel appreciated and loved.
Showing appreciation:Expressing gratitude with simple words or gestures, such as a "thank you" or a note, strengthens bonds with those who help them and increases their own happiness.
Helping others:Sharing time, knowledge, and experiences with younger people, comforting and guiding them, allows them to feel useful and experience joy in strengthening others.
Asking Jehovah for strength:Trusting in Jehovah and relying on his infinite energy gives them physical and emotional strength, and experiencing his love and support fills them with happiness.
RRemembering that old age and infirmities are temporary:Keeping in mind that physical difficulties and old age will not last forever helps them to maintain hope and joy, trusting in Jehovah's promises of a better future.
ADDITIONAL COMMENTS
Older people can maintain their joy by accepting help, showing appreciation, and helping others. They can also ask Jehovah for strength and remember that old age and infirmity are temporary.
How can we help elderly Christians?
We can help elderly Christians in several ways: Maintaining regular contact shows them that we love and care about them, helping to reduce their loneliness and anxiety. Planning these visits or calls helps us prioritize their company amidst our busy lives.
Sharing time and activities:Talking with them, asking them to share anecdotes or favorite texts, watching JW Broadcasting® programs together, or enjoying recreational activities strengthens friendships and brings them joy. We can also help them in practical ways, such as updating electronic devices or downloading study materials.
Accompanying them to the doctor:Accompanying them to medical appointments provides them with security, ensures they receive good care, and allows us to take notes on what the doctor says. This can also make doctors take them more seriously and make them feel supported.
Participating with them in ministry:Involving them in preaching, whether by accompanying them in the cart, providing a chair, inviting them to Bible studies or preaching meetings in their home, allows them to remain active and feel useful, while we honor them and strengthen their spirits.
ADDITIONAL COMMENTS
By visiting and calling them regularly, and making sure they have everything they need. If they also need food, we can help them with that.
Another tip is to accompany them to the doctor, to make sure they are well cared for and receive the attention they need.
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