TREASURES FROM GOD'S WORD, Week of October 13-19, 2025, Let Us Go “to the House of Mourning,” Prepared Speech.

TREASURES FROM GOD'S WORD, October 13-19, 2025, Let Us Go “to the House of Mourning,” Prepared Speech.

Let’s go “to the house where there is mourning” (10 mins.)

We live in a world where the loss of a loved one is one of the most painful trials we can face. When someone goes through that valley of sadness, it is important that, as Christians, we show support and comfort in a genuine and loving way.

Let us take time to comfort those who are grieving.

Taking time to comfort those who are grieving can be one of the most valuable things we can do to show that we care and are there for them. It's not just about saying "I'm so sorry," but about being with them, listening to them, and helping them feel the comfort that comes from Jehovah.

The Bible reminds us of the importance of being present in times of pain.

LET'S READ ECCLESIASTES 7:2

“It is better to go to a house where there is mourning than to a house where there is celebration, because death is the end of all men, and those who are living should reflect on that.”

Jehovah teaches us that although death is a painful reality, these moments can help us reflect on the brevity of life and strengthen our relationship with Him.

We are also told that there is “a time to weep and a time to laugh” (Ecclesiastes 3:4). A wise person doesn’t run away from the pain of others, but rather seeks opportunities to offer comfort. In doing so, we demonstrate compassion and Christian love, and we are also reminded of the importance of living purposefully, with our eyes fixed on the promises of our Creator.

We can comfort them by talking about the beautiful qualities of the person who has died.

A beautiful and practical way to console is to talk about the beautiful qualities of the deceased.

LET'S READ ECCLESIASTES 7:1

“A good reputation is better than fine oil, and the day of death is better than the day of birth.”

Remembering the good times, virtues, and positive qualities of that person can bring comfort to those who are grieving. When we share positive memories, we help those grieving a loss focus on their loved one's beautiful qualities and the love that still endures.

William, who lost his wife, said: "I like it when people tell me the wonderful memories they have of her. It shows me that they loved and appreciated her."

And Bianca, another sister who suffered the loss of her husband, says she finds comfort when others pray with her, read Scripture to her, and allow her to talk about her husband. These displays of empathy and active listening are small acts that go a long way toward providing comfort.

Brothers and sisters, let us not underestimate the value of a sincere conversation, a smile, or a shared memory. Sometimes, a few kind words can be the spark that keeps hope alive for those who are suffering.

Pray with them

Another powerful way to comfort is to pray with those who are grieving. Sincere prayers can greatly ease their pain and remind them that Jehovah is near to those whose hearts are broken.

LET'S READ PROVERBS 17:17

“A true friend loves at all times and is a brother in times of trouble.”

How important it is to continue supporting our brothers and sisters in the months that follow, when others have returned to their daily lives.

Dalene, a sister who has experienced loss, says, “Sometimes when the sisters come to comfort me, I ask them to pray with me. At first, they struggle to speak, but little by little, their voices become stronger, and the prayer becomes deeply felt. Their faith, their love, and their concern strengthen my faith so much.”

What a beautiful example, isn't it? Prayers don't need to be long or perfect; they just need to be sincere. When we pray with someone who is suffering, we're not just asking for comfort, but also reminding them that Jehovah hears, that He understands, and that He hasn't left them alone.

Gabi, a sister who received support in her time of grief, said: “I thank Jehovah so much because the elders helped me with love and didn’t leave me alone. They made me feel that Jehovah was surrounding me with his loving arms.”

Furthermore, we must remember that, since each person is different, the grieving period does not last the same amount of time in all cases. Therefore, our support should not only be offered during the first few days, when many relatives and friends are nearby, but also during the following months, when others have returned to their normal lives.

Sometimes sadness returns without warning: from a song, a photograph, a special date, or even a smell, a sound, or a simple memory. For someone who has been widowed, it can be very difficult to do some things for the first time without their partner.

A widowed brother recounted: “My first anniversary without my wife was very painful, but several brothers organized a small gathering so I wouldn’t be alone.”

Another example is Junia, who said: “The support you receive when there's no anniversary coming up can be even more valuable. Those spontaneous occasions are the most comforting.”

Illustration

In times like these, the presence and support of friends and family can be a great comfort, something that is reflected in small actions. As the image in our activity guide shows, a couple visits a brother who has lost his wife, and together they look at photographs of happy moments they shared, remembering the good times and offering comfort in a difficult time.

Conclusion

Although we cannot take away the pain or fill the void left by the loss of a loved one, we can be instruments of Jehovah's comfort.

When someone loses a loved one, it's like breaking a mirror that reflected happy times and shared memories. Even though that mirror is broken, the fragments—the memories and the love—are still precious. Our role is to help that person carefully pick them up, not to forget what was lost, but to rebuild their hope and renew their purpose.

Jehovah promises to be “a refuge in times of trouble” (Psalm 9:9). He will be there to provide comfort and strength in these difficult times, as a safe haven and a loving Father who never abandons his children.

So let us reflect Jehovah's love in times of pain and need. Let us be a friendly arm that embraces and supports, and a listening ear that listens and understands. May our every word and every gesture convey his love and remind those who are grieving that they are not alone, for their spiritual family and their loving God are with them.